Marriages & Partnerships
Your guide to getting married or forming a civil partnership in Somerset & North Somerset.
Weddings and Partnerships are wonderful occasions filled with hopes and dreams and we look forward to being part of your special day.
Your ideal ceremony may be a traditional celebration with bridesmaids and pageboys, or a relaxed family gathering, a quirky themed extravaganza or an intimate exchange of vows: This is your day, and the choice is yours.
We are here to guide you through the process of getting married or forming a partnership, and hope that this guide will tell you everything you need to know. If there’s anything we’ve missed, we’re happy to answer your queries. Please go to the Forms & Downloads section in More Information for your pre-ceremony check form and guidance.
What is the difference between a full ceremony and a basic "2+2" ceremony?
The full ceremony option is available at our Taunton, Yeovil and Weston locations and at all our licensed ceremony venues. You can customise this ceremony to include readings, music and personal vows on top of the basic legal declaration, contracting words and ring vow. You can invite friends and family to a full ceremony, and we have a great range of locations to suit all sizes and budgets. It can last a little longer and costs more than the basic ceremony, and the price varies depending on the day and location.
How do I book my ceremony?
You need to book your ceremony with the Register Office, and also with the venue if you want to get married at one of our Approved Premises. Do check that your chosen venue is available before booking a Registrar to avoid disappointment. Phone us with your preferred date and time to see if we are available. Unfortunately online booking isn’t an option as each ceremony will have different requirements depending on where it is held. Payment can be made by card at our offices or over the phone.
How much will it cost?
Our Basic Ceremony costs just £57 including a certificate, while the price of a Full Ceremony varies depending on the location and date. Please see our Costs section in More Information for full details. You will need to pay for your Full Ceremony at least 8 weeks before the event. If you are having a Basic Ceremony you may pay on the day by card or cash, or we can accept a cheque 8 weeks prior to the ceremony.
How do we choose what will happen in the ceremony?
You will need to agree about what legal declarations and vows you want to say to each other (these words do not need to be spoken aloud during a civil partnership ceremony). If you’re having a full ceremony, you can also choose music and readings as well. We need to have details of everything you want to include at least 4 weeks before the ceremony, or we will prepare a standard ceremony format. Download our Pre Ceremony Guidance and Ceremony Form from the Forms & Downloads section in More Information for either the Basic, Full Ceremony or Civil Partnership, as appropriate. If you have any queries, we’re happy to help – just email the team or give us a call. Email or post your completed form back to our Taunton office.
What details do I need to put in the register or schedule?
You will need to provide your name, age, occupation, marital status and address, and sign the register using your normal signature of your pre-marriage name. You will be asked to provide your father’s name and occupation. This should be your biological father, legally adoptive father, or step-father if he is or has been married to or in a civil partnership with your mother. It is possible to leave this entry blank if you wish to do so. In England there is no opportunity to include your mother or other second parent’s details. If you would like to include them in the official documents, you could ask them to be a witness.
How long will the ceremony last?
A simple ceremony will last between 15 and 20 minutes. If you want to personalise the full ceremony with readings and take photographs it can last up to around 30 minutes. If you’ve booked your ceremony at a Register Office, you will have a 45 minute time slot. If you choose to get married at an approved venue you will have a booked time for the ceremony itself. You can then be more flexible with your time after the ceremony for the rest of your celebrations.
Can we write our own vows?
You do have to say the legal vows (the declaration and contracting words) during your marriage ceremony, but you can add your own words if you want to. You don’t have to repeat any vows aloud for a civil partnership, but have the option to speak the legal wording and your own vows. Let us have a copy of your personalised vows in advance so we can build them into the ceremony.
Can we have a religious ceremony?
You can’t hold a religious ceremony at a Register Office, and we only license Approved Premises for non-religious weddings and partnerships. For Church of England marriages you should make an appointment at the church where you intend to marry. Church of England clergy are authorised registrars and can normally carry out all the necessary legalities. For other faiths and denominations, you should contact the minister to check whether they are authorised to solemnise marriages. You will need to pay for a Registrar to attend your ceremony with a register.
Can we choose our own music?
Yes – as long as it is not religious. You can have a string quartet or a brass band, if there’s space! If you’re using a recording, check with the venue to see what format they will need. If you are getting having your ceremony at an approved venue, please supply your music choices directly to them. See our downloadable Guidance sheets for suggested use of music during the ceremony.
Can we have readings?
Can we have a ceremony at our home?
A civil marriage or partnership must be held at a licensed venue. It could be possible to get your family home licensed for weddings but this is a costly and impractical option, especially if you don’t have room for guests. There is a requirement that an approved premises should be regularly available to the public for holding ceremonies, which would not normally be the case for most private homes. Somerset has over 120 approved venues to choose from, so there should be something to suit everyone.
Can we have an outdoor ceremony?
Some venues are licensed to hold ceremonies in outdoor structures such as gazebos. They will normally have an indoor room available in case the weather is less than perfect. Browse our venue directory to see what is on offer. Licenses are granted for specific rooms or permanent structures, so unfortunately you can’t get married under a tree or on a beach.
Can the ceremony be in another language?
Who can be a witness?
You will need 2 witnesses to sign the marriage register or partnership schedule. They might be close friends or family, but don’t need to be. We ask that they are at least 16 years old, and they must be capable of understanding the proceedings, witnessing and signing the register. You will need to bring your own witnesses as Register Office staff can’t perform this function.
Do I have to be given away?
Do we need to exchange rings?
Are photos and videos of the ceremony allowed?
Can I invite a few extra guests to the simple “2+2” ceremony?
Who arranges the seating?
This is something you’ll need to delegate, traditionally a job for the best man or a wedding coordinator. It’s up to you whether you seat your guests according to “bride” or “groom”, or let people choose their own spot. Whoever you put in charge will need to make sure there’s enough seating at the front reserved for key family members, bridesmaids and groomsmen to sit during the ceremony and register or schedule signing.
Can I decorate the venue?
If you will be getting married or forming a partnership in a Register Office, there won’t be an opportunity to decorate the room to a personal theme as we often hold several ceremonies a day.
However, if you have chosen to hold your event at an approved venue, you can arrange for flowers and themed decorations with their wedding coordinator. Browse our Wedding Supplier Directory for local professionals who can work with you to create your dream theme.
Can we have confetti?
We’ve introduced a biodegradable confetti only policy at our Registration Offices. Paper, petals and bubbles only please! While throwing rice is an old tradition to bless the couple with fertility and good fortune, we’d appreciate guests avoiding this as it tends to turn to turn our carpets into rice pudding and attracts unwanted wildlife.
Our approved ceremony venues each have their own policy, so do check with them and let your guests know. Popular environmentally friendly choices include dried lavender, rose petals or DIY confetti made from hole punched leaves. Beautiful!